Verse 8
"To sum up" concludes the section on respect for others (1 Peter 2:13 to 1 Peter 3:12). This verse deals with attitudes. Again we note that Peter regarded attitudes as foundational to actions (cf. 1 Peter 3:1; 1 Peter 3:7; James 3).
"Harmonious" implies cooperation when there are individual differences. These differences can have a pleasing rather than an irritating effect. We do not all need to sing exactly the same tune, but our tune should harmonize with those of our brethren. We should be able to work together as the different parts of an athlete’s body work together to reach our common goal victoriously.
"Sympathetic" means suffering with another by entering into and sharing the feelings of others rather than by having compassion on another person from a distance. It implies bearing one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2).
"Brotherly" looks at the special love that unites believers (cf. 1 Peter 1:22; 1 Peter 2:17).
"Kind-hearted" means feeling affectionately, compassionately, and deeply for someone else.
The person who is "humble in spirit" is willing to put someone else’s interests and needs before his or her own (cf. Philippians 2:3-4). This would apply to God’s purposes as well as the needs of other people.
"Christians are to be emotionally involved with each other." [Note: Davids, p. 125.]
These five qualities are vital to effective interpersonal relationships. They are also indispensable for maintaining oneness in marriage.
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