Ephesians 4:32 - Homilies By T. Croskery

The benevolent and forgiving temper.

Instead of bitterness, there ought to be kindness; instead of wrath, anger, clamor, and evil-speaking, there ought to be tender-heartedness; instead of malice, a loving and hearty forgiveness.

I. KINDNESS . It is a suggestive idea that our English word "kind" is derived from kinned , as marking the affection of kindred.

1. Consider how it is to be manifested.

2. The motives to kindness.

II. TENDER - HEARTEDNESS . This expression is in the original closely allied to "bowels of mercy" ( Colossians 3:12 ). It implies a compassionate sense of the miseries and infirmities of others. It is to interpret in the best sense the injunction of the apostle: "Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others" ( Philippians 2:4 ). The ties of nature are not cancelled by Christianity, but strengthened by it. We ought to be ready at all times to soothe the sorrows, to remove the miseries, to solve the doubts, of our neighbors. It is a temper highly recommended in Scripture ( Luke 6:36 ; 1 Peter 3:8 ). An unmerciful spirit is declared to be inconsistent with the love of God in the soul: "Whoso … shutteth his bowels of compassion .. how dwelleth the love of God in him?" ( 1 John 3:17 ). We ought to follow the example of our heavenly Father, who is rich in mercy, and whose tender mercies are over all his works; and of his dear Son Jesus Christ, who was often moved with compassion ( Matthew 9:36 ), and, as the High Priest of our profession, cannot but be touched with the feeling of our infirmities ( Hebrews 6:15 ).

III. THE FORGIVING SPIRIT . "Forgiving one another, even as God also in Christ forgave you." These words imply:

1. That Christians will often do to one another much that needs forgiveness. They are "of like passions with other men," beset by infirmities of temper, or apt to come into collision with others either in a way of opinion or of interest. Faults will be committed, offence will be given.

2. That it is a Christian. duty to forgive others. Our Lord gave repeated injunctions respecting it ( Matthew 6:14 ; Luke 17:4 ).

3. Our forgiving our brethren must be a certain factor in our own prayer for Divine forgiveness.

4. The motive or measure of our forgiveness is to be the very forgiveness of God himself. Note: