Proverbs 18:24

24. A man that hath friends… friendly This is a good proverb as it stands, taken in a duly qualified sense, but it is very doubtful whether our Authorized Version gives the sense of the first clause. There are many varying translations of it. That of the Speaker’s Commentary is as good as any: “A man of many companions is so to his own destruction;” or, as Holden renders, “Is ready to be ruined.” Gesenius gives the sense as being “to destroy or ruin one’s self.” This may be understood of the man’s finances or his morals. There is a kind of friendship that is very expensive to a man, and very injurious. It requires a great deal of his time and attention, and is exhibited and maintained by expensive feasts, parties, and visits. A man’s friends sometimes make exorbitant claims upon him in a business way, and, not unfrequently, to accommodate them he ruins himself. The latter clause of the proverb, as we have it, can scarcely be improved. It has probably no direct reference to the higher and best Friend, to whom it is sometimes applied; but it is not misplaced when used in an accommodated way of HIM who indeed sticketh closer than a brother. Miller, on the contrary, according to his theory, says, “Though there is [in the clause] a secular use referring to human friendships, yet they are but the shadow of the divine. All disappoint save that One closer love that cleaves to us when a brother fails us.” Proverbs 18:23-24: are not found in the Septuagint.