Whedon's Commentary on the Bible - Proverbs 25:9-10
9, 10. Debate thy cause… neighbour Reason with him plead with him. Discover not a secret Do not suffer any angry feeling against thy neighbour, growing out of a contest, to induce thee to take vengeance on him by causelessly revealing a secret to his injury. This would be dishonourable, and get thee a bad name. “Make no third person a party to difficulties that can be settled between thee and him.” Conant. Comp. Matthew 18:15. read more
Whedon's Commentary on the Bible - Proverbs 25:8
8. Go not forth… to strive Do not begin controversies, nor contend at law. Know not what to do Or, lest thou do something in the end that is humiliating or vexatious. Some critics would read the passage, Lest it be said to thee, What wilt thou do? The teaching is: “It is dangerous to plunge into litigation;” and the experience of thousands of years, and ten thousands of men, confirm it. read more