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Dr. Wilder presents a comprehensive framework for understanding human maturity as a foundational element in overcoming sexual addiction, rooted in biblical and developmental psychology. It identifies six stages of maturity—unborn, infant, child, adult, parent, and elder—each with distinct needs and tasks, emphasizing that failure to progress through these stages, particularly to adult maturity, results in addictive behaviors. Central to this progression are the ability to regulate emotions, return to joy after distress, develop self-awareness through the 'eyes of heaven,' and learn to do hard things without relying on immediate gratification. The sermon underscores that true healing requires confronting the 'nucleus accumbens'—the brain's craving center—through disciplines like fasting, and highlights how modern culture, especially in Christian communities, often stunts maturity by rushing individuals into adult roles before they are ready. Ultimately, the message is that lasting recovery and spiritual health depend on a holistic, stage-appropriate journey toward wholeness, where individuals learn to care for themselves, relate to others, and serve their communities with integrity and joy.
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